marianne williamson conscious uncoupling

“Katherine Woodward Thomas brings a gentle but fiercely powerful approach to what can otherwise be such a painful experience. Through Conscious Uncoupling, we can transform the deepest disappointment into a sacred journey from sorrow to peace.”

—Marianne Williamson, New York Times bestselling author of A Return to Love

john gray conscious uncoupling

Conscious Uncoupling is a kind and compassionate guide on how to overcome breakup grief and use it to transform and enrich your entire life. The process Katherine Woodward Thomas provides will not only help make your heart whole again, but will also ensure a positive, hopeful future for all involved. A paradigm- shifting book that promises to uplevel how we collectively do breakups moving forward.”

—John Gray, New York Times bestselling author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

“Katherine Woodward Thomas is my relationship guru. Her wisdom and guidance helped me clear all blocks to romantic freedom. Conscious Uncoupling will help you embrace the true meaning of forgiveness and restore your faith in love.”

—Gabrielle Bernstein, New York Times bestselling author of Miracles Now


“During a breakup—a time that normally brings out the worst in us, Katherine Woodward Thomas takes us by the hand and helps us live in ways that are aligned with the highest and the best we have within us. With amazing clarity and depth, she’ll take the splinter out of your soul and support you to end your relationship in a way that leaves you, and those you care about, whole and complete rather than broken and damaged. I absolutely love this book!”

—Marci Shimoff
New York Times bestselling author of Happy for No Reason

claire zammit conscious uncoupling

Conscious Uncoupling  presents a sensible and very helpful five-step approach toward turning the tragedy of a breakup into a new healthy beginning instead of a wound that keeps festering.”

—John Gottman, bestselling author of The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work


Debra Poneman conscious uncoupling

“In Conscious Uncoupling, Katherine Woodward Thomas has created the definitive blueprint for how to complete a relationship in a way that leaves everyone honored and empowered. If you’re considering uncoupling, I suggest you run—not walk—to the nearest bookstore and start reading it today. You’ll discover that a graceful parting of the ways is doable even under the most extreme of circumstances. I find Katherine to be always on the leading edge of thought—and we are once again the beneficiaries of her brilliance.”

—Debra Poneman, bestselling author and founder/CEO of Yes to Success, Inc.


“Marriage and family therapist Thomas (Calling in “The One”) sets out to empower recently separated couples with a program designed to bring ‘dignity, goodness, and honor’ to the end of a relationship. After making suggestions for salvaging the relationship via counseling and communication, Thomas outlines the five steps of conscious uncoupling, which include ‘find[ing] emotional freedom,’ ‘reclaim[ing] your power and your life,’ ‘break[ing] the pattern,’ ‘becom[ing] a love alchemist,’ and ‘creat[ing] your happily-even-after-life.’ Thomas uses her own experiences as points of instruction, sharing her inability to let go of an old flame and the struggles she’s faced in her own divorce. She also provides validating scholarship, citing studies that show the brain reacts to bad breakups in the same way as to the death of loved ones. The practical challenges of a relationship’s end are outlined, including harmonious co-parenting and equitable financial divisions. Thomas proves herself compassionate and emotionally in-tune with the pain of love lost, and her guidance will likely usher many of those afflicted to a brighter, or at least less bitter, future.

Thomas proves herself compassionate and emotionally in-tune with the pain of love lost, and her guidance will likely usher many of those afflicted to a brighter, or at least less bitter, future.”

—Publishers Weekly

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Arielle Ford on Conscious Uncoupling

“Conscious Uncoupling is a powerful and groundbreaking process that provides a proven path to healing and wholeness from the devastation of heartbreak. From her decades of experience as a therapist and her personal story of divorce, Katherine Woodward Thomas reveals the transformative steps back to a life of love, freedom, and happiness.”

—Arielle Ford,
bestselling author of The Soulmate Secret


Arielle Ford on Conscious Uncoupling

“Katherine Woodward Thomas is as wise and intelligent as she is empathic and brave. Her knowledgeable, visionary and clear teachings have consistently represented empowerment and healing to so many, myself included. Her seer-like insight and her gentle yet unwaveringly leading-edge and applicable guidance holds our hands as we traverse the often debilitating territory of breakups and endings. I am so happy Katherine is on this planet.”

—Alanis Morissette,
multiple time Grammy winning
singer-songwriter


Kathlyn Hendrics conscious uncoupling

“There is so much wisdom, heart, and humor in this book you’ll want to sleep with it under your pillow. Katherine communicates the real deal—you’ll see it immediately and breathe deeply for having such a friend on the path. Full of head, heart, body, and relational wisdom gathered from years of deep exploration, Conscious Uncoupling is the book that you’ve been looking for to guide you to true freedom. I loved it!”

—Kathlyn Hendricks, Ph.D.,
New York Times bestselling coauthor of Conscious Loving and Conscious Loving Ever After



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